He wanted me to have an abortion

Many women say to me "he wanted me to have an abortion!"



Sorry!  It's just not that big a deal.  Especially when the kid is 10 years old! 



Many men just "freak out" when they first hear that they are going to be a dad.  They have a moment of panic and fear.  But once the baby is born they are a great dad. 



So mom, get over it!



No court is going to "terminate his parental rights" or whatever because for 5 minutes he behaved badly!



Especially, if he's been behaving fine for the past 2 years!